谦和是中国人的一种最重要的民族美德。

Modesty is the important national virtue to the Chinese people.

中国人说话总是很客气，这并不是因为中国人虚伪，而是他们处事做人的一种基本态度：谦和。

Chinese people are always humble in conversation. It is not out of deceit,but out of their basic principle for conducting themselves in life: modesty.

不论一个人的地位有多高，学问有多了不起，他都不应该盛气凌人，用粗鲁、傲慢的态度去对待他人。

No matter how high his position is, nor how learned he is ,one should not put on airs or treat others rudely and arrogantly.

一个人要想长久生存，要想避免危险，柔弱和谦和是最重要的条件。

Softness and modesty are the most important elements to avoiding danger and living a long life.

中国人一向不愿和别人争胜，但是他们自己一定要怀抱着远大的理想 。

Chinese people don’t often want to contend for the upper hand,but certainly hold lofty ambition within themselves.

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